Welcome to my practice! I’m so glad you’re here.
I’m Adam Baltieri, a holistic counselor, offering sessions online all over the world, and less often in person in Berlin, Germany.
I support people in clarifying and cultivating new and creative ways of being. That is, I support people in gently liberating themselves from the past. With my clients, I co-create a sacred relational space for transforming ways of thinking, feeling and relating that no longer serve. Such journeys may be non-linear and incremental – with occasional leaps and bounds – and they are sustained by patience, curiosity and openness to new experience. It is a deep, subtle and rewarding inner work, guided by your heart's desire.
I am a holistic counselor and certified master practitioner of the NeuroAffective Relational Model (NARM). I have many years of rigorous training at the intersection of Western psychology and Eastern approaches to spiritual maturity.
I hold degrees in philosophy in English and German from the University of California, Berkeley and Freie Universität, Berlin.
I bring direct and considered personal experience to my work, incorporating a prolonged examination and integration of my own trauma and drawing on a lifetime of unusually deep and extensive inquiry into being human.
What I offer is largely about integrating and growing beyond the unconscious emotional, behavioral and relational patterns that we develop in order to manage our families and survive our childhoods; ultimately, it is about becoming who you are (individuation). My work promotes whole-hearted engagement with our inner worlds, relationships, and the ordinary circumstances of life – contributing to autonomy, aliveness, creativity, individuality, relatedness, presence and compassion for oneself and others.
My practice is deeply relational. I work both "top down" (mind, symbols, education) and "bottom up" (body, emotions, integration), blending the two in a present-moment response to emerging wholeness of Self.
My practice is suitable for people looking for effective, realistic and substantive depth-oriented, attachment-based, and emotion-focused personal growth work outside of dehumanizing and bureaucratic medical models.
My work is informed wherever possible by the latest scientific research and practices, and still makes room for the mystery of life – the true source of being. Hence, Alive in the Mystery...
Your deeper intention for therapy may become your ally and guide.
My life and practice are guided by sacred regard for human interdependence, both personally and globally.
I am dedicated to supporting my clients in transforming inner obstacles and becoming who they are.
I offer a collaborative relationship based on presence, curiosity, respect, friendliness, a sense of humor, being realistic and mutual commitment.
Basically, when we more fully experience who we are, we naturally and effortlessly change. Befriending ourselves and staying open in the face of what is unknown or uncomfortable goes a long way.
My practice is deeply relationally oriented.
We begin where you are, now.
I often work with creative people who are drawn to self-discovery, growth, and living more in alignment with themselves, some of whom have challenging histories or family backgrounds, in both obvious and not-so-obvious ways.
On my best days, I work from an underlying reverence for the mystery of Being and the irreducible uniqueness of individuals, and trust in the power of skillful attunement and shared intentionality within the spontaneity of relational space. Ethically, it is important for me to maintain confidentiality, to be honest about what I can provide, to respect my clients' freedom, and to offer support that is genuinely aligned with my clients' wishes.
I believe it is courageous to reach out to another human being. My practice should honor such courage.
I believe in the subtle life-changing power of bringing more of ourselves into our relationships. I aim to support this.
I believe you can trust yourself and the inherent wisdom in who you are to help you move forward. My practice is about making space for and attending to this deeper wisdom for your natural unfolding.
The best way to explore the possibility of working together is to schedule an initial consultation (first session).
Learn more about my services and how they can support you, below.
NARM Master Practitioner →
Holistic Counsellor →
B.A. University of California, Berkeley
M.A. Freie Universität Berlin
I grew up between the hills and ocean in Southern California, and have lived in Europe for the past decade. I love making art, dancing, playing music, being with loved ones, and learning. One of my favorite places to be is the sauna, besides the ocean and wilderness. My awareness of impermanence has made everyday life precious to me.
Experience in various somatic, psychotherapeutic, mindfulness, yogic and spiritual traditions (with a scientific/empirical orientation)
Sessions offered in English and German
Multiple sessions, over a longer period of time and with regularity, for sustainable long-term growth, insight, change, and reconnection.
I practice an advanced modality for transforming the attachment patterns, personality structures, and psycho-biological survival strategies originating in the childhood environment. The approach is profoundly humanizing, gentle, precise, and respectful of the uniqueness of individual experience, and is meant to establish a safe, intersubjective container for deep exploration and healing. I draw on depth-psychology, mindfulness, interpersonal neurobiology, and body-oriented approaches for inner change, as well as practically incorporating spiritual insight.
Sessions with me could be deeply supportive for you around the following issues, for example:
Sessions could also be supportive if:
My practice is informed by the Neuro-Affective Relational Model, an advanced clinical approach for transforming attachment, relational and developmental trauma. In sessions, we may track the personality patterns that cause life-long psychobiological symptoms and interpersonal difficulties, inviting openness and curiosity. Elegantly combining practical spirituality, neuroscience, and psychodynamic wisdom, NARM also draws on body-oriented approaches for inner change.
The work I offer does not explicitly aim at behavioral change, but focuses on the deeper dynamics of the self: inner work for outer change. What I facilitate is deep inner exploration and mindful awareness of self in the present moment. As we access the most authentic parts of ourselves, our behaviors change naturally.
We are formed in relationship. As children, we are naturally dependent. The survival imperative to maintain relationships with our caregivers, and thus adapt to our environment, always trumps our natural authentic needs and expressions. Later in life, we may now be independent and relatively free, yet we carry our childhoods into the future. Originally, our adaptations were healthy and creative. Now they are contractions of the life force, occluding the present. In the past, we may have had to give up our lives in order to save our lives. This is the bind, or the core dilemma, in its starkest expression. In adult life, we are no longer dependent, yet continue to filter reality through a restrictive lens.
Previously successful adaptations or survival strategies now get in the way of being ourselves. Exploring the “unconscious” is not so much an excavation, analysis, or explanation of the past, as it is an ongoing process of becoming aware of what we really want, how we’re really feeling, and what we’re really doing, now.
Exploration sheds light on the nature of personality structures and adaptations as a substitute for authentic Being. We recover ourselves gradually in the openness of inquiry. Growing compassion for, and awareness of, our unique humanity sheds light on the Self and dissolves our identifications. As we uncover our true intentions, they serve as our guides in exploration and reconnection to Self. In this process, our inner difficulties become the ground and material for creative vitality and openness, now.
As we remain curious about and experience what emerges in the co-created therapy field, I may sometimes take a directive role, based on an agreement with you to move through sessions in a way that is faithful to your wishes and intentions for seeking this work.
Like many therapists, my way of working has had many influences, including attachment theory, contemporary relational psychoanalysis, object relations theory, mindfulness-based modalities, trauma-informed therapies, body-oriented practices and somatic psychologies, Eastern and Western spirituality, ‘Jungian’ work, and interpersonal neurobiology, among other things.
I believe that relationship is the primary vehicle for inner change, and that one essential factor in therapeutic processes is a therapist's own capacities, experience, and self-awareness, which I take seriously.
Individual sessions, taking as their point of departure present issues in your inner and outer life, and an exploration of your truth and intentions in relation to this.
The ‘container’ for this work is more flexible and spontaneous than therapeutic counseling. Adventurousness, vulnerability, a sense of humor, some bravery, non-effortful focus, willingness to be uncertain, as well as curiosity before judgment, are all aids for this kind of self-exploration.
I primarily focus on holding an open space for exploring your personal experience, without taking sides or making judgments about what is arising, and invite inquiry towards awareness and deeper understanding. This process is meant to support you in becoming more grounded in your truth, whatever it is.
Creative and constructive pathways open when we are both grounded in our truth and have contact with the reality of situations. When we integrate body and mind, we become more fully here. When we become aware of and integrate more parts of ourselves, we move into Presence and increase our capacity for living.
In this work, there is a willingness to experiment while caring for our own boundaries and not pressuring ourselves. In order to grow, we need to find a balance between safety and challenge.
In the best case, our professional relationship may plant seeds for, or stimulate, a natural process of growth, transformation, and self-awareness, and facilitate health, vitality, and your full expression as a human being.
With regard to your intentions, if a particular issue indicates something that could be better worked on in a more clearly structured therapeutic relationship – with me or with someone else – I will do my best to track this and make appropriate suggestions. I can recommend various therapies and types of personal work, within the scope of my knowledge and experience.
Here are some possibilities for this work:
Infrequent, occasionally contextualized snippets from primary sources in psychology, spirituality, literature, philosophy, art, and other fields.
The primary sources are intended to support and inspire people engaged in creative lives of self-inquiry. Excerpts will usually be short, and I may include reading recommendations and other miscellany.
Currently the newsletter is infrequent and irregular.
This is the rationale: So many brilliant people before us have expressed essential insights in ways that we can hardly improve upon. Rather than reinvent the wheel or contribute more clutter, a curatorial exposition honors and makes available these riches at an historical moment of unprecedented change.
Future possibility of minimal information about offerings and developments related to my practice.
NOT SUITABLE FOR
I work with people to support the natural movement towards psychological health, vitality, and individuation. I am not a doctor, nor a licensed psychotherapist, and I don't offer medical advice or treatments. If you're wondering what we can work on together, we can talk about it.
LOCATION
Limited availability for in-person sessions, in the Kreuzberg/Neukölln areas. Online video sessions available through whatever channel is appropriate and convenient. Transcontinental rhythms across various time zones are possible.
PAYMENT
My fees and policies are similar to those of many practitioners offering similar services, and are determined on an individual basis. I believe that any relational work leading to the expression and unfolding of the self is priceless. Billing depends on the service provided.
INSURANCE
I am unfortunately only able to work with privately paying clients. Paying for your own personal work can be beneficial, for various reasons. We can discuss this and explore your situation, possibly finding a supportive solution within your worldly means.
WHAT DOES "PSYCHO-SPIRITUAL" MEAN?
Today the term is used in various ways. Here it is used intentionally vaguely with the awareness that relationships and practices for fostering psychological growth, insight, healing, wisdom, human development, integration, individuation, waking up, etc., have existed in many times, places, and contexts, beyond the Western medical model and its gift of psychotherapy, which has existed only for about 100 years. There is always an inexplicable element in these practices, as there is in relationships. “Psycho-spiritual" includes everything in human life that is not visible to the naked eye, encompassing both what is personal and what goes beyond that, without coming to any philosophical, scientific, religious, ethical or other conclusions about it. Here the term expresses the belief that we may live ever more deeply, truly, and wholly from ourselves, in connection with others, and that there are means available to support us. In other words, we may return to Being and its presencing as our individuality, which is fundamentally creative. Such a general, yet specific term is appropriate for a pluralistic, globalized era, where inner growth and self-awareness are playing an ever more important role both personally and collectively.
Welcome to my practice! I’m so glad you’re here.
I’m Adam Baltieri, a holistic counselor, offering sessions online all over the world, and less often in person in Berlin, Germany.
I support people in clarifying and cultivating new and creative ways of being. That is, I support people in gently liberating themselves from the past. With my clients, I co-create a sacred relational space for transforming ways of thinking, feeling and relating that no longer serve. Such journeys may be non-linear and incremental – with occasional leaps and bounds – and they are sustained by patience, curiosity and openness to new experience. It is a deep, subtle and rewarding inner work, guided by your heart's desire.
I am a holistic counselor and certified master practitioner of the NeuroAffective Relational Model (NARM). I have many years of rigorous training at the intersection of Western psychology and Eastern approaches to spiritual maturity.
I hold degrees in philosophy in English and German from the University of California, Berkeley and Freie Universität, Berlin.
I bring direct and considered personal experience to my work, incorporating a prolonged examination and integration of my own trauma and drawing on a lifetime of unusually deep and extensive inquiry into being human.
What I offer is largely about integrating and growing beyond the unconscious emotional, behavioral and relational patterns that we develop in order to manage our families and survive our childhoods; ultimately, it is about becoming who you are (individuation). My work promotes whole-hearted engagement with our inner worlds, relationships, and the ordinary circumstances of life – contributing to autonomy, aliveness, creativity, individuality, relatedness, presence and compassion for oneself and others.
My practice is deeply relational. I work both "top down" (mind, symbols, education) and "bottom up" (body, emotions, integration), blending the two in a present-moment response to emerging wholeness of Self.
My practice is suitable for people looking for effective, realistic and substantive depth-oriented, attachment-based, and emotion-focused personal growth work outside of dehumanizing and bureaucratic medical models.
My work is informed wherever possible by the latest scientific research and practices, and still makes room for the mystery of life – the true source of being. Hence, Alive in the Mystery...
Your deeper intention for therapy may become your ally and guide.
My life and practice are guided by sacred regard for human interdependence, both personally and globally.
I am dedicated to supporting my clients in transforming inner obstacles and becoming who they are.
I offer a collaborative relationship based on presence, curiosity, respect, friendliness, a sense of humor, being realistic and mutual commitment.
Basically, when we more fully experience who we are, we naturally and effortlessly change. Befriending ourselves and staying open in the face of what is unknown or uncomfortable goes a long way.
My practice is deeply relationally oriented.
We begin where you are, now.
I often work with creative people who are drawn to self-discovery, growth, and living more in alignment with themselves, some of whom have challenging histories or family backgrounds, in both obvious and not-so-obvious ways.
On my best days, I work from an underlying reverence for the mystery of Being and the irreducible uniqueness of individuals, and trust in the power of skillful attunement and shared intentionality within the spontaneity of relational space. Ethically, it is important for me to maintain confidentiality, to be honest about what I can provide, to respect my clients' freedom, and to offer support that is genuinely aligned with my clients' wishes.
I believe it is courageous to reach out to another human being. My practice should honor such courage.
I believe in the subtle life-changing power of bringing more of ourselves into our relationships. I aim to support this.
I believe you can trust yourself and the inherent wisdom in who you are to help you move forward. My practice is about making space for and attending to this deeper wisdom for your natural unfolding.
The best way to explore the possibility of working together is to schedule an initial consultation (first session).
Learn more about my services and how they can support you, below.
NARM Master Practitioner →
Holistic Counsellor →
B.A. University of California, Berkeley
M.A. Freie Universität Berlin
I grew up between the hills and ocean in Southern California, and have lived in Europe for the past decade. I love making art, dancing, playing music, being with loved ones, and learning. One of my favorite places to be is the sauna, besides the ocean and wilderness. My awareness of impermanence has made everyday life precious to me.
Experience in various somatic, psychotherapeutic, mindfulness, yogic and spiritual traditions (with a scientific/empirical orientation)
Sessions offered in English and German
Multiple sessions, over a longer period of time and with regularity, for sustainable long-term growth, insight, change, and reconnection.
I practice an advanced modality for transforming the attachment patterns, personality structures, and psycho-biological survival strategies originating in the childhood environment. The approach is profoundly humanizing, gentle, precise, and respectful of the uniqueness of individual experience, and is meant to establish a safe, intersubjective container for deep exploration and healing. I draw on depth-psychology, mindfulness, interpersonal neurobiology, and body-oriented approaches for inner change, as well as practically incorporating spiritual insight.
Sessions with me could be deeply supportive for you around the following issues, for example:
Sessions could also be supportive if:
My practice is informed by the Neuro-Affective Relational Model, an advanced clinical approach for transforming attachment, relational and developmental trauma. In sessions, we may track the personality patterns that cause life-long psychobiological symptoms and interpersonal difficulties, inviting openness and curiosity. Elegantly combining practical spirituality, neuroscience, and psychodynamic wisdom, NARM also draws on body-oriented approaches for inner change.
The work I offer does not explicitly aim at behavioral change, but focuses on the deeper dynamics of the self: inner work for outer change. What I facilitate is deep inner exploration and mindful awareness of self in the present moment. As we access the most authentic parts of ourselves, our behaviors change naturally.
We are formed in relationship. As children, we are naturally dependent. The survival imperative to maintain relationships with our caregivers, and thus adapt to our environment, always trumps our natural authentic needs and expressions. Later in life, we may now be independent and relatively free, yet we carry our childhoods into the future. Originally, our adaptations were healthy and creative. Now they are contractions of the life force, occluding the present. In the past, we may have had to give up our lives in order to save our lives. This is the bind, or the core dilemma, in its starkest expression. In adult life, we are no longer dependent, yet continue to filter reality through a restrictive lens.
Previously successful adaptations or survival strategies now get in the way of being ourselves. Exploring the “unconscious” is not so much an excavation, analysis, or explanation of the past, as it is an ongoing process of becoming aware of what we really want, how we’re really feeling, and what we’re really doing, now.
Exploration sheds light on the nature of personality structures and adaptations as a substitute for authentic Being. We recover ourselves gradually in the openness of inquiry. Growing compassion for, and awareness of, our unique humanity sheds light on the Self and dissolves our identifications. As we uncover our true intentions, they serve as our guides in exploration and reconnection to Self. In this process, our inner difficulties become the ground and material for creative vitality and openness, now.
As we remain curious about and experience what emerges in the co-created therapy field, I may sometimes take a directive role, based on an agreement with you to move through sessions in a way that is faithful to your wishes and intentions for seeking this work.
Like many therapists, my way of working has had many influences, including attachment theory, contemporary relational psychoanalysis, object relations theory, mindfulness-based modalities, trauma-informed therapies, body-oriented practices and somatic psychologies, Eastern and Western spirituality, ‘Jungian’ work, and interpersonal neurobiology, among other things.
I believe that relationship is the primary vehicle for inner change, and that one essential factor in therapeutic processes is a therapist's own capacities, experience, and self-awareness, which I take seriously.
Individual sessions, taking as their point of departure present issues in your inner and outer life, and an exploration of your truth and intentions in relation to this.
The ‘container’ for this work is more flexible and spontaneous than therapeutic counseling. Adventurousness, vulnerability, a sense of humor, some bravery, non-effortful focus, willingness to be uncertain, as well as curiosity before judgment, are all aids for this kind of self-exploration.
I primarily focus on holding an open space for exploring your personal experience, without taking sides or making judgments about what is arising, and invite inquiry towards awareness and deeper understanding. This process is meant to support you in becoming more grounded in your truth, whatever it is.
Creative and constructive pathways open when we are both grounded in our truth and have contact with the reality of situations. When we integrate body and mind, we become more fully here. When we become aware of and integrate more parts of ourselves, we move into Presence and increase our capacity for living.
In this work, there is a willingness to experiment while caring for our own boundaries and not pressuring ourselves. In order to grow, we need to find a balance between safety and challenge.
In the best case, our professional relationship may plant seeds for, or stimulate, a natural process of growth, transformation, and self-awareness, and facilitate health, vitality, and your full expression as a human being.
With regard to your intentions, if a particular issue indicates something that could be better worked on in a more clearly structured therapeutic relationship – with me or with someone else – I will do my best to track this and make appropriate suggestions. I can recommend various therapies and types of personal work, within the scope of my knowledge and experience.
Here are some possibilities for this work:
Infrequent, occasionally contextualized snippets from primary sources in psychology, spirituality, literature, philosophy, art, and other fields.
The primary sources are intended to support and inspire people engaged in creative lives of self-inquiry. Excerpts will usually be short, and I may include reading recommendations and other miscellany.
Currently the newsletter is infrequent and irregular.
This is the rationale: So many brilliant people before us have expressed essential insights in ways that we can hardly improve upon. Rather than reinvent the wheel or contribute more clutter, a curatorial exposition honors and makes available these riches at an historical moment of unprecedented change.
Future possibility of minimal information about offerings and developments related to my practice.
NOT SUITABLE FOR
I work with people to support the natural movement towards psychological health, vitality, and individuation. I am not a doctor, nor a licensed psychotherapist, and I don't offer medical advice or treatments. If you're wondering what we can work on together, we can talk about it.
LOCATION
Limited availability for in-person sessions, in the Kreuzberg/Neukölln areas. Online video sessions available through whatever channel is appropriate and convenient. Transcontinental rhythms across various time zones are possible.
PAYMENT
My fees and policies are similar to those of many practitioners offering similar services, and are determined on an individual basis. I believe that any relational work leading to the expression and unfolding of the self is priceless. Billing depends on the service provided.
INSURANCE
I am unfortunately only able to work with privately paying clients. Paying for your own personal work can be beneficial, for various reasons. We can discuss this and explore your situation, possibly finding a supportive solution within your worldly means.
WHAT DOES "PSYCHO-SPIRITUAL" MEAN?
Today the term is used in various ways. Here it is used intentionally vaguely with the awareness that relationships and practices for fostering psychological growth, insight, healing, wisdom, human development, integration, individuation, waking up, etc., have existed in many times, places, and contexts, beyond the Western medical model and its gift of psychotherapy, which has existed only for about 100 years. There is always an inexplicable element in these practices, as there is in relationships. “Psycho-spiritual" includes everything in human life that is not visible to the naked eye, encompassing both what is personal and what goes beyond that, without coming to any philosophical, scientific, religious, ethical or other conclusions about it. Here the term expresses the belief that we may live ever more deeply, truly, and wholly from ourselves, in connection with others, and that there are means available to support us. In other words, we may return to Being and its presencing as our individuality, which is fundamentally creative. Such a general, yet specific term is appropriate for a pluralistic, globalized era, where inner growth and self-awareness are playing an ever more important role both personally and collectively.